The Starplet System

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See, that’s what the app is perfect for.

Sounds perfect Wahhhh, I don’t wanna

About Us

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┊❥ Body Age: 20 years old

┊❥ Pronouns: They/Them

┊❥ System Type: Doesn’t matter to you.

┊❥ Discovered March 2020

┊❥ Diagnosed DID November 2023

┊❥ Body is a POC

┊❥ Simply Plural: StarpletSys

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┊❥ Really, we don’t care too much who interacts at this point. I think by this point we have our views on things pretty clear. Just don’t be a dick.

┊❥ Worth mentioning: we are pro-endogenic. We don’t care what you think. If you’re anti-endogenic you can interact, but I figure you’d probably not want to having said what I just said.

┊❥ Basically, if we make you uncomfortable, just don’t interact. Easy as.

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┊❥ No Roleplay

┊❥ Don’t start drama

┊❥ We don’t care if you think we’re faking, we have better things to do than defend our diagnosis. This is our life, deal with it.


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┊❥ Kara
┊❥ 25
┊❥ xe/xer
┊❥ Little sister vibes
┊❥ Birthday: 4/10

┊❥ Taylor
┊❥ 23
┊❥ she/her
┊❥ Big sister vibes
┊❥ Birthday: 11/2

No one else will be listed unless we are comfortable sharing. [5/4/24]

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Pinned Post multiplicity didblr dissociative system actually dissociative did blog did alter dissociative identity disorder did osdd did system actually did did dissociative alters dissociation dissociative identities pluralintro pluralgang plural positivity actually plural plural pride plural stuff plural community plural system plurality endo friendly endo safe pro endo anti endos dni
sophieinwonderland
sophieinwonderland

A New Anti-Endo Systempunk blog trying to explain what systempunk is...

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Oh? Change and a better world? Fighting against stigma?

You might want to tell some of the other people in your tag that because they're writing stuff like this:

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That doesn't seem like fighting against stigma to me.

That seems like the opposite.

Anyway, back to this blog...

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"All DIDOSDD and traumagenic systems are welcome here."

"Unless you're mixed origin or use labels I don't like or support endogenic systems or non-disordered systems. Then you're not allowed."

You notice the subtle trick they're using here, right?

The othering of pro-endo traumagenic and CDD systems who don't agree with them. Because if they support all traumagenic and DIDOSDD systems, and exclude supporters of non-traumagenic systems, then it implies those supporters aren't real systems.


While this, to be fair, is part of their personal boundary and not the systempunk definition, this is very much exactly what anti-endos wanted the systempunk tag to be. A place to spread hate that excluded any systems with beliefs that were too abnormal or individualistic for them.

Pluralpunk was too radically inclusive and accepting, so the anti-endos wanted a place to go where they could still pretend to be punk without dealing with all the systems who were too different for them from their idea of the medical model of systemhood.

nightowltribe

If you have such a fucking problem with people wanting a tag where they can find real systems to connect with and talk to then you have the option to block the fucking tag. Many of the people using that tag have been blocking or avoiding endo, pluarl, and pluarlpunk tags so you have another fucking option to go where you want. Seeing the entitled people trying to refuse dissociative systems even just one tag to let us connect with other dissociative systems has really pissed me off. At this point I say it too, fuck endos. Once upon a time we wanted to try to have open dialoge to correct misinformation in a polite and respectful place but its clear that over all the endo community and its supporters do not care to actually hear what being a system is.

Religion does not make a system, there are terms from the culture of that religion to describe 'spiritual systems'.

Alters without the disorder doesn't exist because alters aren't a stand alone symptom of dissociative disorders it is extreme dissociation so alters can not exist outside of severe dissociative disorders.

The term system is a medical term referring to a system of dissociative states.

sophieinwonderland

The term system is a medical term referring to a system of dissociative states.

No it isn't.

"System" has a pretty broad application in psychiatry and psychology. Even specifically in regards to parts of a personality.

See Internal Family Systems therapy for example.

What is Internal Family Systems? | IFS Institute
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There is NO medical definition that defines system as exclusive to people with CDDs, and it has been a shared community term since the 90s.

And now that endogenic and non-disordered systems are being studied, guess what word actual medical professionals are using?

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Also, keep in mind that a popular view by some psychologists is that possessing spirits ARE "dissociative states."

This paper, for instance, discusses the possibility of spirits communicated with by mediums being self-conscious "dissociative parts of the personality."

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So even your made-up definition of system would still be applicable.


As for your issues with me posting in the systempunk tag, I've watched for months while anti-endos have invaded intentionally inclusive spaces and tags. I've watched anti-endos brigade the pluragang tags. I've watched them try to push us out of the alterhuman community. I've watched people try to kindly ask anti-endos to not post in these inclusive spaces, and they've dug in their heels.

And before you way it doesn't happen, here are the anti-endos crosstagging anti-endo posts into the inclusive pluralgang tag.

For a long time, I used to avoid posting in anti-endo tags. But I don't actually care to let a hate group have their spaces anymore.

Actions have consequences.

livseses

They're really gonna just breeze past the whole "and their supporters" part of that yeah? Straight the fuck up, these ripped jeans buying assholes don't give a shit about CDD having mother fuckers. They give a shit about other hate filled pricks. Just turns out that it's a niche enough hate that they can hide behind a doctor prescribed label.

This shits so reminiscent of LGB shitheads.

thestarpletsystem

This is funny. They don’t care and they don’t want to care. Very reminisect of the LGB folks

syscourse
quincy-clover
the-alarm-system

the system experience

>type did system into youtube search bar

>first option is "did system cringe"

>go onto reddit and type did system

>first option is fake disorder cringe

>feel fucking awful

>do a did presentation in medical class

>someone raises their hand and asks how to know if someones faking

>feel fucking awful

>tell someone you have did

>they ask if you're faking because you have a fictive

>feel fucking awful

>feel fucking awful

>feel fucking awful

>tell a close friend you have did

>they get disgusted when you say we instead of I

>look at tiktok compilations

>did cringe compilation

>follow a funny youtuber

>video on people faking did

>feel fucking awful

>try and look for resources

>psychiatrist making a presentation on how did systems looking for community is a sign of faking, uses system content without their consent

>psychiatrist making a presentation on how did systems being open is a sign of faking

>go onto tumblr

>type plural

>find post about how "the future is plural" is traumatizing children and should never ever ever happen because fuck plurals we don't need acceptance that bad right?

oh my god when does it fucking end

thestarpletsystem

It doesn’t. That sounds terrible, but right now they’re not interested at all in listening to us. It’s frustrating. I wish it was easy to make them all understand, but it’s not. One day they will. One day it will be understood how we all live and function on a daily basis. But right now, things suck. Keep going, keep trying to make things better for others who come after us. We all deserve better

artisticdysfunction
the-alarm-system

I might get attacked for this but genuinely the plural community has a racism problem??

A huge thing that kinda slowed down my syscovery was seeing how white plurals would say racial slurs and excuse it with "oh my headmate is poc!" be fucking serious, on top of that you guys never really give room to poc system voices?? any major plural channel/resource is made up of white systems.

while there is a racism issue on both ends of syscourse, it also feels like anti endos ignore cultural plurality for the sake of their white psychiatrist's dsm-5

On the pro-endo side there will literally be white plurals defending the use of (radqueer) transracial and cultural appropriation, check your privilege

if you feel offended or uncomfortable by this, you might have some shit to reflect on

-Ardyn

sysmedsaresexist

Anonymous asked:

question... how accurate/rigid is the age range requirement for developing DID? something i often see people say is "even though i have many of the symptoms i can't possibly have did, my trauma happened exactly one (1) year after the cutoff date in the dsm" and something about that just... feels wrong.

sysmedsaresexist answered:

Using general “you” throughout, not you specifically, anon.

That depends on who you’re asking and what other circumstances you’re talking about.

Depending on additional disorders, genetics, attachments in infancy, age and length/consistency of trauma, additional supports in place…

Some doctors think the true cutoff is closer to 16, some as early as 4. The average consensus seems to be 9. Based on my own research, I think it could be 12.

There’s no age in the DSM. One of the authors wrote a separate book where he said:

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Note: begins before 5-6. And it’s from over 10 years ago.

But let’s be super real here. Trying to set a One True Age is like trying to set a one true age for puberty. There can be averages sure but too much is going into it for there to be an Official Number.

I think the best way to think of this is…

Everyone is going to be different, and there’s a sizeable amount of wiggle room in the age. Single time trauma can stagnate development, recurring trauma could even set you back in development.

These are two individualized sliders on the same continuum.

(I have no idea what happened to the resolution, I am truly sorry for this horror but I’m not redoing it)

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One is fixed– your genetics are something you can’t change, it’s already preset with your own unique age window. It’s size can increase or decrease, though, based on interruption, pushing it out further.

The other moves around all willy nilly based on the accumulation of circumstances. You’re constantly wracking up and losing points in your own numbers game.

That means that there’s going to be an overlap for a specific period of time that’s different for everyone.

And if you’re around that window, there’s a good chance your plurality and trauma are related.

Remember, though.

With CDDs, the trauma is longterm and recurring. While it’s extremely common to not remember your trauma, and even more common to not recognize it as trauma…

Your single “trauma” that you’ve decided is The Trauma™️ that you’re referencing isn’t what we’re actually talking about.

What else happened in your life, both positive and negative?

What other factors are at play? Comorbid disorders?

Whose research and numbers are you basing this on?

What other symptoms do you display? How severe are they?

TL;dr if you’re struggling, you deserve help, regardless of how you identify or label it. That’s all that matters.

thestarpletsystem

This!! It’s so important to know that it’s not super fixed. Thank you for the info :)

sophieinwonderland

Anonymous asked:

r/systemscringe and its contemporaries would also fakeclaim me because I don't reach their designated baseline of trauma???

Fascinating how they would throw out "real systems" (read: traumagenic systems, but this is how they think) along with the "fake" ones in the effort to defend their community.

Anyways, I have trauma that I will never remember because I was like less than a year old but only the trauma I remember counts, right???

In summary, from a traumagenic system with complicated opinions on endos: r/systemscringe is incredibly ableist to everyone around them, even if they'd support them in principle.

sophieinwonderland answered:

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thestarpletsystem

Yeah but they also half the time don’t even think DID or OSDD is real so… Even if you did reach their shitty baseline of what’s bad enough, they would still probably fake claim you for some reason or another. They would fake claim me, just because of this blog or because I support endogenic systems. They don’t care how people act either online or in real life, no one is safe. Even if I would be considered “legit enough” if they met me in real life. To them, there is no “perfect” DID system/“perfect” survivor. At least not enough to deem them as “actually real.” Because of course not. If you’ve ever seen what happens to people who basically out themselves on that sub, you would know it’s a blood bath. They do not care.

These are the people we’re arguing with. Don’t take what they have to say at all. They literally don’t care about you, they don’t care about the disorder, and they don’t care about people who are actually affected. And they wonder why we call them a harassment subreddit…

syscourse
indigochromatic
pluralasking

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Yes, pins with plural flags / symbols.

Yes, clothing with plural flags / symbols.

Yes, a plural flag / similar.

Yes, stickers of a plural flag / a symbol.

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thestarpletsystem

We actually have the plural rings as perler beads!

Anonymous asked:

Saw the post about communication tips and we don't know how to nicely shorten it down, so we're just sending it as an ask. My apologies!!!


(Not trying to be mean, just letting you know our experience!!) Once we realized we were a system, it took four years for a lot of communications to kick in, so keep that context in mind! (not mean).

Something that helped us was journaling, a classic. People wrote about their day, stuff they found funny, the weather- anything. While we tried to sign-off, not everybody did and that was okay. Opening up that dialogue was what mattered. Overtime, multiple people signed off on the same day. Big step for us.

Something else that helped was just leaving little notes around our room. I even found doodles. People would reply to them overtime like a messaging board.

Surprisingly, a camera helped too. We have an instax camera that we take photos of "us" with! We either pose like there's multiple people, dress in a combo of everyone's style, have something that represents them (like a rupee for Link and a bow for Hello Kitty /example), or some combination.

What we mainly do now is play MineCraft. A private world that everybody can play on. We don't know why it really helped boost communication, but it did. People who couldn't cross certain barriers suddenly roomed with each other in-game. I think having that virtual world with no limits, bartering, pranks, and sharing helped so much. Maybe a little bit of competitiveness drove us too ("Ha! I've got the most diamonds and you'll never find them!"). So silly, but MineCraft has helped so much for us. You can make rules for the world or have it be wild, it's adaptable in a certain sense.

For us, having something for anyone and everyone to interact with or just leave a mark, helped us a lot. Our communication was built up overtime.

So sorry for the long blab, but I do feel like it wouldn't make sense without as much typing as I did </3

Really do hope this helps!! Communication can be hard, so don't stress too much or overthink it (and don't beat yourself up over it).

You got this!!

(all genuine in tone)

Thank you so much for this!! /gen We were doing okay with communication, but then summer hit so things have gotten hard again. Unfortunately, journaling is really tough for us because of ADHD and distinct lack of major object perminance… We give it a shot every now and then, though, just in hope it will stick one day. We don’t really have distinctive styles either, we mostly just wear the same stuff we always wear… I do like the picture idea though. Actually, our Fiance has a digital collage of the selfies we send, so trying to keep one for ourselves might be helpful! We haven’t tried the bulletin bord type idea yet, but that’s a good one! Hopefully with it being around it will be more noticable than just a journal that’s likely to get lost in the sea of our room. We haven’t thought of the minecraft one. I think we’ll deffinately try to do the minecraft one asap, since that really appeals to me at least, hopefully it will for other’s too since we grew up with that game.

Like I said, thank you so much!! I really really apprciate it /gen