The Starplet System

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See, that’s what the app is perfect for.

Sounds perfect Wahhhh, I don’t wanna

About Us

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┊❥ Body Age: 20 years old

┊❥ Pronouns: They/Them

┊❥ System Type: Doesn’t matter to you.

┊❥ Discovered March 2020

┊❥ Diagnosed DID November 2023

┊❥ Body is a POC

┊❥ Simply Plural: StarpletSys

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┊❥ Really, we don’t care too much who interacts at this point. I think by this point we have our views on things pretty clear. Just don’t be a dick.

┊❥ Worth mentioning: we are pro-endogenic. We don’t care what you think. If you’re anti-endogenic you can interact, but I figure you’d probably not want to having said what I just said.

┊❥ Basically, if we make you uncomfortable, just don’t interact. Easy as.

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*•̩̩͙✩•̩̩͙*──・┆✦ʚ♡ɞ✦ ┆・─ 𝓑𝓸𝓾𝓷𝓭𝓪𝓻𝓲𝓮𝓼 ─・┆✦ʚ♡ɞ✦ ┆・ ──*•̩̩͙✩•̩̩͙*

┊❥ No Roleplay

┊❥ Don’t start drama

┊❥ We don’t care if you think we’re faking, we have better things to do than defend our diagnosis. This is our life, deal with it.


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┊❥ Kara
┊❥ 25
┊❥ xe/xer
┊❥ Little sister vibes
┊❥ Birthday: 4/10

┊❥ Taylor
┊❥ 23
┊❥ she/her
┊❥ Big sister vibes
┊❥ Birthday: 11/2

No one else will be listed unless we are comfortable sharing. [5/4/24]

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Pinned Post multiplicity didblr dissociative system actually dissociative did blog did alter dissociative identity disorder did osdd did system actually did did dissociative alters dissociation dissociative identities pluralintro pluralgang plural positivity actually plural plural pride plural stuff plural community plural system plurality endo friendly endo safe pro endo anti endos dni
pluralproseka
pluralproseka

i dont hate being plural i hate having to mask being plural. I hate dissociation all the time. i hate re-enacting trauma. i hate never being able to be myself. i hate not recognizing my own reflection.

but i dont hate being plural.

thestarpletsystem

This. It’s really hard out here. I wish it was normal to be plural. My embarrassment and shame comes from the other things as well as it not being normalized. Out of fear of being called crazy or being seen as a faker or any number of things. It’s even more rough when you’re a control freak like me, and you have no control over these things… it’s hard

sysmedsaresexist
sysmedsaresexist

Reblog to share a hug 🫂

A long, long time ago, I made a post about how just one hug could make ALL the difference for a child at risk of traumatization, be it a supportive teacher, friend, or family member.

Everyone is so angry lately, and I think we all need a hug.

Regardless of who you are or what you believe, in a show of kindness, reblog to share a hug.

Remember, even if you disagree (yes, even on those topics), we're all just people trying to figure it out. This isn't about whether we're right or wrong, it's about recognizing that we're all just human.

And that we probably needed that extra hug as a kid.

therihare
therihare

im a traumagenic system, so telling me that "REAL traumagenic systems hate endogenic systems!!!" means literally nothing to me. funnily enough the folks this usually comes from have fakeclaimers in their DNI. hmm... anyways, endogenic systems have my full support and always will. its extremely entitled to say that you know exactly how the human brain works. you dont.

thestarpletsystem

Yeah, basically. They’re really not getting it, I don’t think…

Something dawned on me recently, after being in therapy and switching almost visibly in front of my therapist. I need to be honest, I realized I’m ashamed and embarrassed for anyone to see my DID. That’s a vulnerability I don’t want anyone to see, I don’t even want my fiance to see that. There’s something deeply unsafe and painful about it, even if I know they’re a safe person. I don’t want to let anyone into my world like that. It feels terrible to even try to. It’s a lot different talking about it and posting about it on the internet vs someone really actually seeing it and hearing it. To have someone in your system reach out to your therapist after to apologize feels violating, even if it really isn’t. It makes the fact I actually have this disorder incredibly more real. It’s something I don’t want to be real. It feels like I’m losing control of everything in my life, or maybe it’s making me realize I never had the control in the first place. For the amount of positivity I want to spread and the amount of activism for the plural community I want to fight for, there is always a piece of me that just wishes I never had to deal with any of this. It’s genuinely something I am embarrassed and ashamed of. It’s something that makes me feel like I’m a fraud, even if it’s proof of the opposite. Not a day goes by that I don’t wish I was normal like everyone else. I don’t feel special, I feel broken and it sucks. It’s not fair. I shouldn’t have to feel ashamed of all of it, but I am. I’m upset and afraid of anyone seeing it. I’m afraid of sharing my reality on here as well, but I’m at a point where I am about to snap.

It feels terrible to share anything vulnerable like this or to actually have DID. However, I need to be seen and heard on this. None of this is to be a doomer or to tell anyone else they have to be like me, but it’s to let you into my reality and my thoughts about all of this. It’s not pretty, and it’s a reality I have to share. Thanks lol

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sophieinwonderland
sophieinwonderland

A New Anti-Endo Systempunk blog trying to explain what systempunk is...

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Oh? Change and a better world? Fighting against stigma?

You might want to tell some of the other people in your tag that because they're writing stuff like this:

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That doesn't seem like fighting against stigma to me.

That seems like the opposite.

Anyway, back to this blog...

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"All DIDOSDD and traumagenic systems are welcome here."

"Unless you're mixed origin or use labels I don't like or support endogenic systems or non-disordered systems. Then you're not allowed."

You notice the subtle trick they're using here, right?

The othering of pro-endo traumagenic and CDD systems who don't agree with them. Because if they support all traumagenic and DIDOSDD systems, and exclude supporters of non-traumagenic systems, then it implies those supporters aren't real systems.


While this, to be fair, is part of their personal boundary and not the systempunk definition, this is very much exactly what anti-endos wanted the systempunk tag to be. A place to spread hate that excluded any systems with beliefs that were too abnormal or individualistic for them.

Pluralpunk was too radically inclusive and accepting, so the anti-endos wanted a place to go where they could still pretend to be punk without dealing with all the systems who were too different for them from their idea of the medical model of systemhood.

nightowltribe

If you have such a fucking problem with people wanting a tag where they can find real systems to connect with and talk to then you have the option to block the fucking tag. Many of the people using that tag have been blocking or avoiding endo, pluarl, and pluarlpunk tags so you have another fucking option to go where you want. Seeing the entitled people trying to refuse dissociative systems even just one tag to let us connect with other dissociative systems has really pissed me off. At this point I say it too, fuck endos. Once upon a time we wanted to try to have open dialoge to correct misinformation in a polite and respectful place but its clear that over all the endo community and its supporters do not care to actually hear what being a system is.

Religion does not make a system, there are terms from the culture of that religion to describe 'spiritual systems'.

Alters without the disorder doesn't exist because alters aren't a stand alone symptom of dissociative disorders it is extreme dissociation so alters can not exist outside of severe dissociative disorders.

The term system is a medical term referring to a system of dissociative states.

sophieinwonderland

The term system is a medical term referring to a system of dissociative states.

No it isn't.

"System" has a pretty broad application in psychiatry and psychology. Even specifically in regards to parts of a personality.

See Internal Family Systems therapy for example.

What is Internal Family Systems? | IFS Institute
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There is NO medical definition that defines system as exclusive to people with CDDs, and it has been a shared community term since the 90s.

And now that endogenic and non-disordered systems are being studied, guess what word actual medical professionals are using?

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Also, keep in mind that a popular view by some psychologists is that possessing spirits ARE "dissociative states."

This paper, for instance, discusses the possibility of spirits communicated with by mediums being self-conscious "dissociative parts of the personality."

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So even your made-up definition of system would still be applicable.


As for your issues with me posting in the systempunk tag, I've watched for months while anti-endos have invaded intentionally inclusive spaces and tags. I've watched anti-endos brigade the pluragang tags. I've watched them try to push us out of the alterhuman community. I've watched people try to kindly ask anti-endos to not post in these inclusive spaces, and they've dug in their heels.

And before you way it doesn't happen, here are the anti-endos crosstagging anti-endo posts into the inclusive pluralgang tag.

For a long time, I used to avoid posting in anti-endo tags. But I don't actually care to let a hate group have their spaces anymore.

Actions have consequences.

livseses

They're really gonna just breeze past the whole "and their supporters" part of that yeah? Straight the fuck up, these ripped jeans buying assholes don't give a shit about CDD having mother fuckers. They give a shit about other hate filled pricks. Just turns out that it's a niche enough hate that they can hide behind a doctor prescribed label.

This shits so reminiscent of LGB shitheads.

thestarpletsystem

This is funny. They don’t care and they don’t want to care. Very reminisect of the LGB folks

syscourse
quincy-clover
the-alarm-system

the system experience

>type did system into youtube search bar

>first option is "did system cringe"

>go onto reddit and type did system

>first option is fake disorder cringe

>feel fucking awful

>do a did presentation in medical class

>someone raises their hand and asks how to know if someones faking

>feel fucking awful

>tell someone you have did

>they ask if you're faking because you have a fictive

>feel fucking awful

>feel fucking awful

>feel fucking awful

>tell a close friend you have did

>they get disgusted when you say we instead of I

>look at tiktok compilations

>did cringe compilation

>follow a funny youtuber

>video on people faking did

>feel fucking awful

>try and look for resources

>psychiatrist making a presentation on how did systems looking for community is a sign of faking, uses system content without their consent

>psychiatrist making a presentation on how did systems being open is a sign of faking

>go onto tumblr

>type plural

>find post about how "the future is plural" is traumatizing children and should never ever ever happen because fuck plurals we don't need acceptance that bad right?

oh my god when does it fucking end

thestarpletsystem

It doesn’t. That sounds terrible, but right now they’re not interested at all in listening to us. It’s frustrating. I wish it was easy to make them all understand, but it’s not. One day they will. One day it will be understood how we all live and function on a daily basis. But right now, things suck. Keep going, keep trying to make things better for others who come after us. We all deserve better

artisticdysfunction
the-alarm-system

I might get attacked for this but genuinely the plural community has a racism problem??

A huge thing that kinda slowed down my syscovery was seeing how white plurals would say racial slurs and excuse it with "oh my headmate is poc!" be fucking serious, on top of that you guys never really give room to poc system voices?? any major plural channel/resource is made up of white systems.

while there is a racism issue on both ends of syscourse, it also feels like anti endos ignore cultural plurality for the sake of their white psychiatrist's dsm-5

On the pro-endo side there will literally be white plurals defending the use of (radqueer) transracial and cultural appropriation, check your privilege

if you feel offended or uncomfortable by this, you might have some shit to reflect on

-Ardyn

sysmedsaresexist

Anonymous asked:

question... how accurate/rigid is the age range requirement for developing DID? something i often see people say is "even though i have many of the symptoms i can't possibly have did, my trauma happened exactly one (1) year after the cutoff date in the dsm" and something about that just... feels wrong.

sysmedsaresexist answered:

Using general “you” throughout, not you specifically, anon.

That depends on who you’re asking and what other circumstances you’re talking about.

Depending on additional disorders, genetics, attachments in infancy, age and length/consistency of trauma, additional supports in place…

Some doctors think the true cutoff is closer to 16, some as early as 4. The average consensus seems to be 9. Based on my own research, I think it could be 12.

There’s no age in the DSM. One of the authors wrote a separate book where he said:

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Note: begins before 5-6. And it’s from over 10 years ago.

But let’s be super real here. Trying to set a One True Age is like trying to set a one true age for puberty. There can be averages sure but too much is going into it for there to be an Official Number.

I think the best way to think of this is…

Everyone is going to be different, and there’s a sizeable amount of wiggle room in the age. Single time trauma can stagnate development, recurring trauma could even set you back in development.

These are two individualized sliders on the same continuum.

(I have no idea what happened to the resolution, I am truly sorry for this horror but I’m not redoing it)

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One is fixed– your genetics are something you can’t change, it’s already preset with your own unique age window. It’s size can increase or decrease, though, based on interruption, pushing it out further.

The other moves around all willy nilly based on the accumulation of circumstances. You’re constantly wracking up and losing points in your own numbers game.

That means that there’s going to be an overlap for a specific period of time that’s different for everyone.

And if you’re around that window, there’s a good chance your plurality and trauma are related.

Remember, though.

With CDDs, the trauma is longterm and recurring. While it’s extremely common to not remember your trauma, and even more common to not recognize it as trauma…

Your single “trauma” that you’ve decided is The Trauma™️ that you’re referencing isn’t what we’re actually talking about.

What else happened in your life, both positive and negative?

What other factors are at play? Comorbid disorders?

Whose research and numbers are you basing this on?

What other symptoms do you display? How severe are they?

TL;dr if you’re struggling, you deserve help, regardless of how you identify or label it. That’s all that matters.

thestarpletsystem

This!! It’s so important to know that it’s not super fixed. Thank you for the info :)