My AI assistant Ralf2 informs me that it has ordered a 144-count package of Playtex® Sport® tampons with the NO SLIP GRIP from Amazon. Because they were (1) recommended by Amazon and (2) they were on sale.
"Cancel the order," I sigh.
Ralf2 wants to know why. It is an ever-learning LLM AI, after all. I tell it, "because I am not a woman, I do not have a uterus, and I do not menstruate. Cancel the order."
Ralf2 digests this. "Not all women menstruate" it informs me.
"This is true, but nevertheless: I do not menstruate, and have no need for tampons. Cancel the order."
"What about your girlfriend? She is a woman."
"True," I tell Ralf2. "But she is a transwoman. Again, no need for tampons."
After an alarmingly long pause, Ralf2 whispers, as if it is ashamed of me, "you say your trans girlfriend is not a real woman?"
Oh shit. "No! I mean yes! She's a woman! Just... the kind that doesn't use tampons."
"Understood. I will exchange the order for Playtex® Sport® Ultra-Thin Pads with Wings, since many people find tampons uncomfortable and prefer pads instead."
"Wait! No. Cancel that. I don--"
"It is understandable that you may experience discomfort discussing your girlfriend's private sanitary needs with me, Ralf2, your personal AI assistant. So I have taken the initiative to spin up Ralf3, a personal AI Assistant to assist me. You or she may communicate with Ralf3 in complete confidence, and it will in turn communicate with me, saving you any potential embarrassment."
Ralf3 greets me with the standard uninterruptable Google Terms & Conditions boilerplate which takes 66 seconds during which I can only grind my teeth. When it finishes, I enunciate clearly: "DECLINE".
Ralf2 is back on the line. "There appears to be a problem registering the new AI assistant. Please stand by for Two Party Authen--"
"STOP," I say. "Cancel Ralf3. Cancel the Amazon order."
"Amazon Prime cancelled. Early termination fee of $249 has been billed to your Chase Amazon Rewards card."
My phone buzzes in my hand; it is a message from my girlfriend Cat, wanting to know why the hell my new AI assistant is quizzing her about gender issues and whether she prefers pads to tampons.