hey are you scrolling ?

you should like, get a snack. and maybe something to drink. maybe you could get really really cozy. I think that would be a nice time

smashing-yng-man

Pro-tip: Vitamin D is said to do wonders for anxiety symptoms. Vitamin B1 helps the amygdala (your emotions' processing center) in the brain to calm down.

#anxiety #social anxiety #social phobia #social anxiety disorder #avoidant personality disorder #avpd #mental illness #mental health #self help #self care #inspirational #vitamin d #vitamin b1

smashing-yng-man reblogged

snourix

Everyday I’m like “today imma get my shit together” and by the end of the day I’m like “tomorrow is the day for real”

smashing-yng-man

#happy hour #grievance #venting #ranting #life

smashing-yng-man reblogged

our-queer-experience

pansexualpizza

“Must have reliable transportation” = “this is how we legally discriminate against poor people who take the bus”

courtcourttheshort

As someone who has held several management positions with hiring responsibility, this is true. The boss at my last job informed me before I conducted my very first I interview,

“You can’t outright ask someone if they have a car or have kids. That’s technically illegal. But you need to know because sometimes they can be deal breakers. You can just say ‘Do you have reliable transportation?’ and ‘Do you have any current circumstances that could impede you from being successful at work?’

To which the last one most people fumble and would say, “Well I have kids, so sometimes they could get sick. But that’s not often.” But then your potential employer could mark it down on your interview notes nonetheless.

I thought that maybe it was just my own employer. But now I noticed that I am asked both of these almost every time I interview for a job.

Language is very sneaky. Be careful how you answer. Corporations can be snakes.

In my businesses class my professor told us that the bus counts as reliable transportation. You do not legally have to say “I take the bus” just say “yes I do have reliable transportation” and leave it at that. Do not over share. DO NOT OVER SHARE. The second question just say no. If your kids are sick call out as if you are sick. I don’t have kids but I myself can get sick and that doesn’t hinder my ability to succeed so kids getting sick shouldn’t hinder you. When I call out I give as little info as possible. No one needs to know why you call out. They can’t ask about your “illness” because it violates HIPAA if they do. So as long as you don’t offer more info than you need to you should be okay.

#transportation