Think back to your most cinematic sexscapade—you know, that time you dragged the palm of your hand down a steamy window like Kate Winslet in Titanic (1997). That one. Even if you don’t know your former lover’s birthday, it’s safe to assume you were with a Leo. These dynamic fire signs offer nothing short of unforgettable experiences. When it comes to matters of the bedroom (or car…or kitchen…or shower…), regal wildcats are not afraid to pull out all the stops. Meow!
Why Leos are so good at sex
Ruled by the Sun, Leos are the center of the solar system…and they know it. This sign is notorious for its larger-than-life personality, signature theatricality, and passion-fueled je ne sais quoi. You might think this sounds selfish, but you'd be wrong. Whether it’s a long-term bond or a one-night stand, Leos want to ensure their partner is also illuminated. Yes, these lions yearn to be part of a power couple—just look at iconic Leo/Leo couple Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck. Drama is infused into everything Leos do, but when push comes to shove, they’re committing to ensure that you’re both shining. You know, main character energy x 2! NBD!
Leo's biggest turn-ons
Believe it or not, Leo’s biggest turn-on is feeling desired. Leos are so terrific in bed because they’re enchanted by seduction—both giving and receiving. Leos purr at the idea of being wanted, which is why sexy tension is so important to this ferocious fire sign. Foreplay isn’t just a means to an end—it’s a vital part of the whole experience! Whether tender affection comes by way of gentle caresses or decadent dinners, Leos are committed to setting the mood. Ambiance, atmosphere, and attitude are absolutely essential for this decadent feline. When Leos are entertaining—whether onstage or at a happy hour—they’re “on.” Everything is a performance opportunity for a Leo, so as long as there’s an audience (and yes, one person counts as an audience), this infamous showstopper will be extraordinarily happy.
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Foreplay tips for Leo
Want some more hot Leo tips? In traditional astrology, Leo is associated with both the heart and spine, which is why sex is such a sensual, lustful, romantic act for this feline. Tracing your fingertips up and down your Leo lover’s back is an incredible erotic gesture. To further spice things up, give your wildcat plenty of room to perform. They're also known for their glorious manes, so give your Leo's hair a gentle stroke...or a tug, if they're into that.
Leo's favorite sex positions
Experimenting with seated sex positions in chairs (*cough* royal thrones *cough*) would offer Leo the perfect angle for tender kisses and affectionate embraces while also offering Leo some key spotlight moments (because—let’s be honest—Leo is always up for the challenge to show off their lap dance skills). Give mirror sex a try, too: Leo wants to see how hot they (and you) are from as many angles as possible!
Another kind of sex Leo loves: Makeup sex. Which, yes, means you have to fight first. But don't worry: It doesn't have to be over something serious. They'll start a big blowup over how to load the dishwasher "right" just so they can enjoy the makeup sex after, and then they'll forget about the conflict in the afterglow. This personality quirk means Leo will likely click well with fellow drama queens fire signs Leo and Sagittarius, while Leo might struggle to connect with practical Taurus, guarded Scorpio, and sensitive Cancer. (But that doesn't mean your Leo/Cancer couple dreams are over—especially if other parts of your birth charts are compatible.)
Why Leo is so passionate
At the end of the day, the reason Leo is so fabulous in bed is that this sign is driven by passion. These lions demand intimacy that matches their big personalities, and nothing delights them more than unabashed adoration. Leos are looking for something sexy, exciting, and heartfelt, so whether the connection is built to last or a sultry fling, Leo will be sure to put in the work. And that kind of lovin’ is definitely worth the drama!
Leo's best and worst matches for sexual compatibility
BTW: Leo is a particularly hot match with fellow fire signs Aries and Sagittarius. They share Leo's passionate outlook on life, high libido, and adventurous nature. They'll try anything at least once, which means they're always up to experiment in the bedroom.
Air signs Gemini and Aquarius also mesh well with Leo. Gemini's playful outlook stokes Leo's creativity, and the two just have fun together. Aquarius and Leo have opposites-attract energy (literally, they're opposites on the zodiac) which means they're very different but complement each other well.
On the other hand, Leo can find themselves stuck in a power struggle—and not the fun kind—with fellow fixed signs Scorpio and Taurus. All three signs are the most stubborn of the zodiac, which means that it's hard for them to find a good rhythm in the bedroom or in a relationship. Everyone wants to be in charge!
Erika W. Smith (she/her) is the current Senior Astrology Editor at Cosmopolitan. In her 4+ years at Cosmo, she's worked on everything from editing weekly horoscopes, to reporting on how astrology influences album release dates, to launching The Cosmo Tarot. Before joining Cosmopolitan in 2020, she worked at Refinery29, HelloGiggles, and BUST magazine. Her book series Astrosex: How to Have the Best Sex According to Your Star Sign was published in 2021. Follow her on Twitter and Instagram @erikawynn.
