I was wondering if you knew any tender poems about friendship? if not, that's totally cool!! :)
“[First full moon of a new and final decade]” by June Jordan
“Poem Read At Joan Mitchell’s” by Frank O’Hara
“Ode to Elliott Smith, Ending in the First Snowfall of 2003” by Hanif Abdurraqib (he once said that Frank O’Hara’s friendship poems/the way he casually mentioned his friends by name in his poems was something that meant a lot to him and I love how you can see in this poem that he did the same)
“The Orange” by Wendy Cope
“Scrambled Eggs and Whiskey” by Hayden Carruths
“acknowledgements” by Danez Smith
(if you’ve noticed that in all these poems there’s a deliberate use of their friends’ names and specific references it’s because it’s something I find very heartwarming. they’re not writing poems about something meant to be relatable they’re just writing because they love their friends and that makes me ! inside)
“To All My Friends” by May Yang
“For Tom Shaw S.S.J.E. (1945–2014)” by Mary Oliver
this is almost 2 years old & I have many new friendship poems I want to add to this 🤍
- “Ode to Friendship” by Noor Hindi
- “Love Language” by Rhiannon McGavin
- “Tomorrow is a place” and “Joy is a promise” by Sanna Wani
- “Friendship” by Chen Chen
- “Someplace Like Montana” by Ada Limón
- “For N & K” by Gina Myers
- “All My Friends Are Finding New Beliefs” by Christian Wiman
- “Great Things Have Happened” by Alden Nowlan
- “Friend” by Jean Valentine
well hi 2 more years later! & many new poems! tell yr friends you love them
- “The Party” by Jason Shinder
- “My Dead Friends” by Marie Howe
- “The Sarah Poems” by Ruth Awad
- “The Tell” by William Bronk
- “Chosen Family” by Rachel Eliza Griffiths
- “Dear Libby” by Kyla Jamieson
- “Poem” by Langston Hughes
- “In the House with No Door” by Sarah Kay
- this excerpt from “Things Other People Are Good At” by Wendy Xu
How are we doing today ladies. Are we still losing it. Are we going completely insane
sad horse music, Samantha Fain
having a quiet life is so.. underrated. i don’t mean it in the sense that people who’re open and loud and busy aren’t important, but when our culture has significantly put so much emphasis on the definition of success as fame, extraordinary accomplishments, greatness and importance and excessive wealth, i think there is so much power to be found in our own anonymity. in the silence of life. in not being constantly perceived, analyzed and performing for the world. in being able to take a walk, smile at strangers and just notice the world without all that noise. taking the biggest pleasure out of the smallest joys, like a cup of coffee or blowing out birthday candles. knowing that our lives don’t have to be a grand spectacle for others in order to have worth and cause a good impact.
Ada Limón, from “World Versus Girl”, Sharks in the Rivers
I hardly want businesses to run like businesses let's be real.
Mieko Kawakami - All The Lovers in the Night
the vocabulary of loss is the dictionary
Born in a Second Language, Akosua Afiriyie-Hwedie
Why My Mother Made Me, Sharon Olds
this is going to sound like such a little sibling ass take but i genuinely believe that being a little bit annoying is actually a greater sign of maturity and self awareness than being universally likeable and on good terms with everyone
if some people find me annoying and can't stand me because of how i think and act then that means i'm a fully realized human being with my own personality and opinions and free will and not just a reflective surface for other people's desires, which is in fact a good thing despite what people who want you to just be a reflection of their own opinions and desires will tell you, and why being considered "cringe" or whatever doesn't bother me at all
also it's really funny when you're confident enough in yourself to know that people not liking you isn't always a sign that you're the problem. like there's something undeniably hilarious about being aware your mere existence has the power to piss someone off and ruin their day and i recommend embracing it.
what frank o’hara said: “i’ve loved too little and i’m tired of running”
"who radicalized you" ever since i was a child i wanted other people to be treated nicely and fairly because i didnt understand why theyd deserve otherwise and it fills me with disgust seeing how people treat their fellow human beings sometimes