Compassion is integral to health care, and we're fortunate to have many colleagues who embody it daily. This heartwarming story illustrates one such example, where the compassionate care from our team at Westfields made a family's bittersweet journey a little brighter. When Annie Thaemert announced her first pregnancy, her mom, Leya Gaynor, was battling cancer. Leya's goal was to make it to the baby’s due date. But Leya’s condition worsened throughout the fall until the day after Thanksgiving when she made the decision to go into hospice care. At this point, the baby's sex remained a secret. Annie shared that by keeping it secret, it gave her mom "the motivation to fight longer to stay around.” As Leya's health worsened, she felt a pressing need to learn the gender of her unborn grandchild. But there was one problem, Annie’s next appointment was several days away. Enter Dr. Joe Renier, a physician and hospitalist at Westfields. Without hesitation, he brought an ultrasound machine into Leya's room. With Annie reclined on the couch, Dr. Renier was able to get a clear view of the baby. After determining the baby's sex, Dr. Renier leaned in and quietly whispered it into Leya’s ear. “She was very content with that,” he recalls. “She smiled and said, ‘thank you.’” Leya passed away a few days later, but not before she got her last wish. “I really wanted nothing more than for my mom to meet my baby, but her being able to find out the sex was the next best thing,” Annie says. “I can’t say enough how meaningful the experience was for me, and for my mom as well.” A few months later, Annie gave birth to a healthy baby boy. Today is our moment to honor the moms in our lives, both those here with us and those we cherish in memory.
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Every challenge we face leaves us wondering if we have somehow offended someone or getting puni.shed for what we did in our past life. But that's not the case. In reality, every challenge carries a hidden lesson meant just for us. Some challenges come into our lives to make us truly feel the pain and learn how to create empathetic solutions. For more than a decade, I've encountered women who have experienced the heartbreaking loss of a pregnancy or a baby. All I could offer them was the familiar phrase, "sorry, take heart, God will provide another one." Isn't that what many of us say in such situations? But it took just one experience for me to fully comprehend the deep pain that comes with losing something so precious. One miscarriage was all it took for me to start creating empathic solutions that would ensure no woman or unborn child is lost to avoidable complications. The factors that contribute to the loss of women and/or their babies are largely preventable. All we need to do is provide women with 24-hour access to quality healthcare. That's precisely why, at Preggify, we offer women a personal doctor who is available to them round the clock. Whether it's daytime or nighttime, at home, at work, or even on holidays, your doctor is always there to ensure you don't suffer avoidable losses. Today, allow one of our compassionate doctors to hold your hand and guide you towards a successful delivery. Let's hold your hands and bring you joy at the end of your pregnancy 👇
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