What do you do if your supervisor is unaware of your burnout?
In the demanding field of social work, burnout—a state of emotional, physical, and mental exhaustion caused by excessive and prolonged stress—is not uncommon. It can creep up silently, and if you're feeling overwhelmed and drained, it's crucial to address the issue before it affects your professional and personal life. But what if your supervisor hasn't noticed your struggle? Here's a guide to navigating this challenging situation.
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Brittainy LindseyChampion of Clinician Mental Health | Amplifying Voices For Systems Change | Community For Wounded Healers
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Beth Tyson 🧠Childhood Trauma Consultant/Trainer, LinkedIn Top Voice, Child Therapist, CASA Volunteer, Co-Chair of the PA Child…
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Laura Brassie, LPC, ACSClinical Supervisor, Therapist Advocate, Clinician Entrepreneur
The first step is to acknowledge your burnout symptoms, which may include chronic fatigue, insomnia, irritability, and a sense of detachment from your job. As a social worker, you're accustomed to caring for others, but self-care is just as essential. By recognizing these signs, you can begin to take proactive steps toward recovery and open a dialogue with your supervisor about your needs.
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Laura Brassie, LPC, ACS
Clinical Supervisor, Therapist Advocate, Clinician Entrepreneur
You might be able to recognize your own burnout. But honestly, many of us can't. If the very first step involves you needing to be highly self aware and proactive while in the midst of burnout, compassion fatigue, and vicarious trauma, that is a huge barrier to actually getting help. Your supervisor should actually be the one to check in on you. And if they're oblivious to how you're doing, that's not a good supervisor.
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Aakriti Malik
I empower Psychologists on their professional development journey- mentorship, group supervision and trainings | Clinical Psychologist | New Zealand Psychologist Board
Often as clinicians who offer their skillsets to their clients, it is very easy to undermine our own signs and symptoms of burnout, even if we see alarm bells ringing (re- self- reflective practices). It would take a skilled supervisor to make note of that and if the supervisor cannot do so, then the very first step to take would be to consider discussing it with them, and then finding a better supervisor-supervisee match. As suggested by other experts, it is never the supervisor solely responsible to identify it, it takes the manager, colleagues and the systems in place to be accountable for someone's burnout too- more of a shared responsibility to identify and prevent it.
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Janany Jayanthikumar
Mental Health Practice Consultant/Educator LinkedIn Top Voice: Social Work
Self-reflective practice is so important. It helps us understand ourselves and our responses better. It also helps us recognize if we are experiencing signs of burnout. A key sign for me when I was practicing as a therapist was exhaustion and dreading going into work.
Once you've acknowledged your burnout, it's important to communicate your situation to your supervisor. Approach the conversation with specific examples of how burnout is impacting your work performance and well-being. Be honest and professional, and suggest possible solutions or accommodations that could help alleviate your stress. Remember, the goal is to work together to find a sustainable way forward.
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Mary C.
Health education lead consultant living on stolen Dharug / Gadigal / Wangal lands -o-
It depends what has caused the burn out. From my experience it is often due to a couple of things including vicarious trauma due to unsafe working environments, or toxic workplaces that don’t support conversations about vulnerability. It’s also a problem if the supervisor is also the manager who is responsible for promotions, leave etc. I agree with the systems issue, too often we teach people about ‘self care’ that loads the responsibility on the person not the system. This is a huge problem. Then, if we don’t acknowledge the personal trauma experienced by many people including high rates of DFV & SA the issue grows. Let’s reword the question to ask … how can supervisors and become more trauma integrated and culturally responsive.
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Michelle Byrd, LCSW-S
Psychotherapist for Children at Nurturing Nature Child and Family Therapy, PLLC AND Medical Social Worker at Texas Children's Hospital
I was experiencing burnout and my supervisor wasn’t aware how severe it was becoming. I did initiate a conversation. She was open to listen and heard me. We problem-solved together and eventually came up with multiple solutions. I’m grateful my supervisor was open to hear me and understand.
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Catherine O'Donnell
Director Lived Experience Engagement and Co-Lead MindLabs
I wonder how much of the $7.1ml will get to the front line where we need peer support workers, across community mental health services, primary health service and in the Head to Health model. Agree also with @victoriapalmer, why do we need to change the name?
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Janany Jayanthikumar
Mental Health Practice Consultant/Educator LinkedIn Top Voice: Social Work
Engaging in conversation with your supervisor about burnout is so important. You may want to prepare yourself for the conversation. Jotting down symptoms and how it may be affecting your work is helpful. I often would also come up with suggestions to help my burnout. For example, extra supervision or limiting new cases for a period of time.
When discussing burnout with your supervisor, come prepared with practical solutions. These might include adjusting your workload, incorporating more breaks into your day, or seeking professional development opportunities that could reinvigorate your passion for social work. Proposing solutions shows that you're committed to your role and willing to collaborate on improving your work situation.
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Brittainy Lindsey
Champion of Clinician Mental Health | Amplifying Voices For Systems Change | Community For Wounded Healers
This is actually terrible advice. Someone who is truly suffering with burnout/emotional exhaustion cannot be expected to bring solutions. They are hurting. It is very likely that the factors driving their burnout are unchangeable in their work environment: caseloads being too high volume or complex, low pay, lack of access to needed training, etc. Expecting therapists and counselors to come ready with solutions deprives them of being seen for their own humanity and risks creating more burden, shame and feelings of isolation in the workplace. We need spaces where it is okay to sit in the messiness of the work and systemic issues without jumping to solutions. That would be granting the same respect they deliver to clients everyday.
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Jessica Sellman
Mental Health Counselor | Trauma-Informed Care
After experiencing burnout myself I can say the shame prevented me from being able to ask for what I needed (which I could not have identified). This proposes that a burned out clinician would have perpective at a time when basic living feels like survival, let alone being able to continue clinical work. Perhaps people who cannot see or have compassion for burn out in the mental health professions should not be in leadership positions. This question also frames the clinician as responsible for their own burnout which is inherently shame inducing.
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Sicily Owings, MSW, SWC
Coach and Consultant // Empowering individuals to overcome passivity, people-pleasing, and avoidance through awareness, ownership and action. // Book your Discovery Call Today! Therootedexplorer.com
The unfortunate thing, as mentioned by another post is that, the system is designed to burnout workers. If an agency or organization has to choose between the health and well-being of the workers and the bottom line, the bottom line wins every time. Not many agencies are willing to forego profits to reduce workloads. Something serious needs to shift or the entire industry is in trouble. We need to stop reinforcing and accepting the narrative that burnout is “normal and a part of the work” because it doesn’t have to be. We need to stop being martyrs. We are being exploited
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David Martinez
Molecular Biology and Cytogenetics
I was a new supervisor in a new lab, where 80% of my team had less than a year experience. I didn’t recognize burnout. Many things had to be done. I went to leadership classes, my schedule was random, attending meetings in the mornings some days (I was an evening supervisor). I was trained three weeks in the morning and switched to evenings with one day a week of training. I had to develop a plan to cross train my team, I also answered questions about workflows I hadnt had the opportunity to read. I worked 14-15 hours some days. I was give a plan of action… but I wasn’t given time. I didn’t recognize this. I just needed time to learn my workflows. Instruments broke on mornings and we had to fix them, when customer service was hard to find.
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Julian Cohen-Serrins Ph.D., LCSW
Independent Consultant (Expert in Burnout, Organizational Culture, and Workplace Research)
I would say the best first step is to make a serious, logical, and planned assessment of the environment and what’s is specifically causing burnout. Find evidence or data which supports that burnout is a serious issue and that it needs be addressed. Use your experiences to bolster that evidence or data. From there, the best solutions center on changes to the work environment and culture. This could mean proposing more check-ins, trainings on workplace wellness, awareness from leaders of workloads, better feedback systems, and spaces where solutions can be shared safely. It’s important to remember that it may take a series of approaches. If that’s not possible then shift to establishing boundaries, self care routines etc.
One of the key strategies in preventing and managing burnout is setting clear personal and professional boundaries. Discuss with your supervisor the importance of a balanced workload and reasonable expectations. If necessary, negotiate your responsibilities and ensure that you have adequate time for rest and recuperation. Boundaries are not only beneficial for you but also for the clients you serve.
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Linda Weeks Di Filippo, MSW, LSW, MBA
I Help You Regulate Your Nervous System to Elevate Success | Former Finance Professional |🎾 Racquet Sports Enthusiast |🎨 Artist
Advocacy is one to the principle tenets of social work, and this includes not only advocating for others but also for ourselves. First, if we are not communicating openly and honestly about our challenges in a specific role, we are creating a barrier to change. Bring your concerns to your supervisor, but also come with proposals and suggestions on how you can feel more supported in your role. We can not do our best work as social workers if we are not caring and advocating for our individual needs. Negotiate for yourself as would for your clients.
Don't overlook the power of support from colleagues and professional networks. Share your experiences with trusted peers who may offer valuable insights or coping strategies. Additionally, consider seeking support from a mental health professional who specializes in helping social workers manage stress and burnout. This external perspective can be a lifeline during challenging times.
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Janany Jayanthikumar
Mental Health Practice Consultant/Educator LinkedIn Top Voice: Social Work
Support is so important for the work we do. It's important to seek support regularly and it can be helpful to seek additional support when you are experiencing signs of burnout. Debriefing with colleagues and being able to review cases can decrease symptoms of burnout.
Finally, take time to reflect on your current situation and the steps you've taken to address burnout. Evaluate what's working and what isn't, and be prepared to make further adjustments. Continuous reflection is key to finding a sustainable balance in your career as a social worker. Remember, addressing burnout is an ongoing process, not a one-time fix.
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Beth Tyson 🧠
Childhood Trauma Consultant/Trainer, LinkedIn Top Voice, Child Therapist, CASA Volunteer, Co-Chair of the PA Child Abuse Prevention Team & Children's Book Author
Calling it “burnout” places the responsibility solely on individuals instead of the broken systems they are trying to operate within. I think language around burnout needs to be changed. People don’t become burnt out because of their own failings. They become burnt out from moral injury, lack of support, inequality, ridiculous workloads, and a lack of flexibility with their time, among other things. Let’s stop blaming individuals by saying they are burnt out, and let’s put the responsibility on what and/or who is burning them.
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Laura Brassie, LPC, ACS
Clinical Supervisor, Therapist Advocate, Clinician Entrepreneur
Burnout is characteristic of organizations and systems, not individuals. The original question should be focused toward supervisors, managers, and higher ups, not toward the staff experiencing the burnout. It should be "how can we support our staff?"
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Mark H.
Counsellor, M.Couns., ACA Level 4| Member of the Supervision College
My thoughts are that ‘burnout’ is a symptom of a systems failure. The questions could be reframed by asking the supervisor “if you notice signs of burnout in your staff, what steps can you take to support?”, “how can you approach your staff in a way that allows them to be comfortable enough to reach out when they are struggling?”, “what strategies/policies can be put in place to prevent burnout in your employees?” It should not be up to the individual to change the system, it needs to be up to the system to notice, support, and adapt with the individual in a collaborative, and mutually beneficial manner.
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Karl Warcon
Renewables
Burnout !!!! Is usually a multitude of downward spiralling factors from the Top of the Hierarchy of Controls that is/has been failing & left unchecked with only devastating results as residue. Left unchecked/unbalanced the consequences of repeating burnouts is still a likely consequence. In many contracting/mining instances I’ve witnessed this fact so many times, with many differing factors being of a major flaw cause, but generally from Under-qualifiedTop Tier Managers or Wannabe’s
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Dr. Arushi Gangaher, Psy.D.
RCI Licensed Clinical Psychologist
I think if your supervisor seems to be unaware of your “burnout” - I think the supervisor needs to be examined first. It’s one of the imperative duties of a supervisor to identify if any employee or subordinate is struggling with work/any issue(s)/ in general. And if they are unaware for any xyz reason, it needs to be expressed at an urgent basis. Most often, supervisors are themselves complicit with the exploitative systems which reinforce burnout, or they may be quick to judge & call employees out on their “weakness” or inability to handle workload. As pointed out in other contributions, it’s not just on the individual to identify and rectify their burnout - it’s also on the organisation & the supervisor to make sure no employee suffers.
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